How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Ask yourself:

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What I need from you?

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What should I do if I love a girl and she apparently doesn't love me?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Does not procrastinate.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Have you ever been humiliated in front of a group of girls and enjoyed it?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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That's it for today.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Making more friends is a goal.